We have a wise and dear friend in Virginia that often tells us how
he believes our actions on Earth are rewarded in heaven with crowns. He
believes that the Saints will be adorned with crowns that will be a reflection
of the good deeds they performed on Earth. I don't know if it’s true, and quite
frankly, it is not something that I would ever debate as truth. However, I have
adopted this standard of thinking as truth, and I sometimes, when the boys do
something that is just extraordinary, I will say, "You will get a crown
for that in heaven." The boys know that although they may not receive
immediate rewards for good deeds here on Earth, it is something that God sees.
Keagan was given four dum-dums at the barber shop on Tuesday. He ate the first
three and saved his favorite for last. When we picked up Evan from soccer, Evan
saw the lollipop and asked if he could have it. Keagan did not want to part
with the candy - it was blueberry flavored and it was his favorite - but he
gave it to Evan.
As soon as Evan popped it in his mouth, Keagan regretted his decision. He
started to cry. As much as I tried to tell him that he had done the right
thing, he still longed for the candy. Then I said, "Keagan, you will be
rewarded in heaven with a crown for that kind act."
This stopped the tears and he began to rethink his decision. That is until Evan
piped in. His mouth blue; his tongue painted almost purple. He gave these
encouraging words. "Well, good job Keagan. You just got your first crown.
You know I have three crowns, right? Keep trying and you might catch up with
me."
I have decided to ask our dear, wise friend if he has any ideas for teaching
humility to an eight year old boy.
